My inner thoughts on a few things...

Truthfully, you can have anything in life you want if you are willing to sacrifice everything in life for it.
With that, nothing comes without a price.
Those who seek love, must learn what love is, trial and error at times (and accepting the error to be so);
those who seek money, will learn how to sacrifice time with friends, family, while working to attain their goals.
You want revenge, you will have to sacrifice a part of your conscience for it, as you hurt the person who hurts you,
so does a part of your conscience hurt with it, and may die.
Nothing you ever seek in life comes for free, all has a price.
You ask yourself, is it worth the price or not, before going ahead with it.
That's the time management of life, managing life.
You decide what you want, and weigh it against your desires, wants, and needs in life, then you go for it or you don't.
But, wise you have to try to be,
so as not to gain an experience in life that simply just thinking about it,
you'd know its wrong, and you shouldn't go ahead with it.
Sit back, and think, think sometimes for a change of what you're doing,
where you're going, what you want, need, desire, and see what YOU can do to achieve them.

Then go ahead.
Before you go into battle, you must decide how much are you willing to loose!
Similar to, before going shopping,
deciding on how much you want to spend,
for you to budget and build yourself not break yourself.
In a battle if you loose, you feel hurt, if you win, you feel glory,
but, sometimes there's a sad sense to glory that turns into regret!
Avoid the battles that are empty,
and focus on what matters to you, makes you better wiser and higher above all.
However, too often in order to feel good,
it means letting go of what you know is right.
Watchout for these moments,
they are the moments of desperation to feel good, anything will go.

A light-hearted example, - retail theropy, shopping to feel good, using credit cards to their max, and then thinking, 'yeah, now I feel good' ;
but the comings months you feel crap as you have to pay them up.
OR, being so upset, that nothing matters, drinking, drinking, drinking till you're drunk, and waking up the next morning with a hangover,
paying the price of getting drunk.

There are many moments in your life,
when you let go of what you know is right,
only just to feel good for a while, then, in time things will catch up with you to make you pay for it.
Take care of you.To have a person in your life, to let them in, means somewhat abandoning the walls you spent a lifetime building around you.
Letting your defenses down, and bringing them closer to you.
From your own experiences you learn that this person will hurt you,
and you will hurt them as well.
But, if you're hurt with a sting, and a breakup happens.
It makes you build those walls higher, clings you behind them, and raises your defenses intensity.

The next person that walks with you, next to you, if perhaps you're planning to let them in,
then do so cauticiously, suspiciously of them,
but not in a manner that kills you in them.
Not in a manner that hurts them,
but in a manner that'll either allow you to abandon again those walls around you,
or gets you to grip them harder, and please cut things will you,
- let them go, if you have no will to abandoning those walls.

You'd both be suffering endlessly, and the next person that bumps into either of your lives,
will pull that person away with a moment.
Of coarse the toughest sacrifices are those we don't see coming.
We always do damage to ourselves, and to other people.
We always hurt ourselves, and the person with us in the relationship.
We're scary and damaged.
We're scared and damaged.We're all damaged it seems,
- some of us more than others.
We carry the damage with us from childhood, then as grown-ups, we give as good as we get, sometimes.
Ultimately though we all do damage, and, then we set about the business of fixing,
whatever we can.
To control the damage we have done, or that which was done to us.
And sometimes the damage is there, but we can't see.
We should start by evaluating ourselves,
improving ourselves to a better me, then, surely slowly, forgive - repair - forget, move on.
Broken relationships do not return to their old-selves,
they either evolve to a better state, or a worse state.
Sometimes, it's best to move on.
People should take responsibilities for their actions in their life.
That's part of growing up.
If we don't take responsibility, then we hurt others, we hurt ourserlves.
We continue to wrong.